Dating advice when to make it official
As a bonus, the dates he comes up with will give you some insight into how he feels."If he suggests seeing the Georgia O'Keefe exhibit because he remembers you like her art, that's a sure sign of romance," Trespicio says."The most appealing thing to a man is a woman who has her own autonomy and strength," Kelman says.The more he sees that you have a fantastic life of your own, the more likely he'll want to jump in and be a part of it.This helps him to realize that your time is valuable and that he'll have to go out of his way to see you. "Don't move dates around too much—that can get frustrating for a guy who also has a busy schedule like you," Trespicio says.It's easy to let parts of yourself go when you meet someone you think is the man of your dreams. "Trying to be someone you're not is so transparent to a guy," Kelman says."If you're always waiting around, he won't feel the need to try that hard."Build some intrigue into your schedule that keeps him wanting more.Wait a few minutes to text back, or if he asks if you're free Tuesday, say that you have other plans but you'd love to meet up on Wednesday.
A new adventure can fortify your relationship since it gives you shared memories to reminiscence about later, and that stronger bond will increase the likelihood he'll want to keep seeing you, exclusively.Above all, keep the tone light and maintain open lines of communication.If you feel confident at this point that you want things to be serious, go ahead and tell him, Trespicio says.No need to sign up at the homeless shelter only to impress him.Little things in your everyday life, from buying coffee for the woman in line behind you to walking your neighbor's dog, count too.